A divorce settled without the involvement of lawyers is a dream for many splitting couples who want to go their separate ways amicably. To be sure, not every divorce has to be filled with bitterness and vitriol, and the less combativeness each side displays, the better.
But if your spouse is intent on keeping lawyers out of your split, there's reason to be alarmed: It could be that your soon-to-be ex has something to hide, including money that you aren't aware of.
Divorce attorneys in Connecticut and elsewhere are no strangers to the scenario: One spouse promises to be accommodating and polite in exchange for a lawyer-free divorce. Once the deal is finalized, the other spouse comes upon a startling discovery -- tens of thousands of dollars, if not more, were stowed away so it wouldn't have to be shared.



